Lillian Lincoln Lambert

I had the opportunity to accept an engagement to speak at the Price Prather Luncheon for the Women in the Profession Committee of the Mississippi Bar Association. What a wonderful experience. From the moment I landed in Sandestin, Fl until I left I was treated like royalty.

My hostess met me at the airport and the first thing I noticed was her beautiful, broad smile. She then greeted me with a big hug.  Having grown up in the south, I know that is typical of southerners. It does not matter whether they have known you for some time or just meeting you, they want you to feel welcome. My, how the world could use more of that thinking!

In a room beautifully decorated in Tiffany (one of the sponsors) colors, after a tasty lunch I addressed about 80 female judges and lawyers (there were a few men scattered in the audience). They requested that I talk on the topic “The Road to Someplace Better”, which is the title of my recently released book. They wanted to know to what I attributed my level of success. Four traits were dominant: persistence, resilience, courage and a good moral compass.

A persistent person is able to continue toward a goal even in the face of opposition.  Determination is a trademark. Resilience is the ability to spring back. Plan but remain flexible: you may have to endure detours or develop a new way of thinking in order to achieve your goals. Sometimes you must be courageous enough to push yourself out of your comfort zone: be brave enough to do something that seems daring. Take calculated risk. Your moral compass will direct your life. Whatever you do in life, you must be able to live with yourself. Never  compromise  yourself  or  your  values  but  maintain  the  highest  standards  of  excellence  and  integrity. So cultivate a moral compass that protects not only your reputation, but most importantly protects your soul.

As the temperature soared to 104 degrees in Richmond, VA today, I headed south hoping for cooler weather. My destination: Ft Walton Beach, FL. As I checked the weather before leaving it was a bit shocking to discover that FL is cooler than VA! A friend from Sarasota sent me an email saying “it is WAY hotter up there than down here”. I head to Sarasota next week.

I am now sitting in the airport in Charlotte, NC awaiting my 5:50PM flight to Ft. Walton Beach, which is near Pensacola. My travels have no taken me to that part of FL so I look forward to the trip with great anticipation even though my stay will be short. . I will be in the company of lawyers and judges tomorrow as I give the keynote address at the Women’s Luncheon for the Mississippi Bar Association. I am excited about this opportunity. 

It is nice and cool in this quiet airport, unlike many where I wait between flights. My computer and the passing travelers make the time pass quickly. The sights are interesting, a real fashion show. Will report back on my visit.