When the Unexpected Happens

February 23rd, 2011


Imagine my excitement when I was asked to be the keynoter for the Martin King lecture at Smith College, a place I had been trying to make inroads. Scheduled to speak at 4:30PM, I agreed to take an early flight (7:00 AM) to arrive at the airport at noon. After a 1-hour drive to the hotel I would have a couple hours to relax.

My flight from Sarasota, FL left on time, scheduled to arrive in Atlanta at 8:43 with a connecting flight at 9:40. Just before we were to begin our descend into Atlanta, the pilot announced that we were in a holding pattern because of fog in Atlanta. Fifteen minutes later we were cleared to land only to be told a couple minutes later that we had been put in another holding pattern.  I was now concerned about my connecting flight but assumed that because of fog planes were not taking off either.  Fifteen minutes later we were cleared to land.  I walked into the airport at 9:10, 30 minutes before my connecting flight. Hurriedly I checked the monitor for the gate of my departing flight only to see in big red letters CANCELLED.  What do I do now?

I contacted my speakers bureau to advise them of the situation. The next scheduled flight was at 12:25 PM – 25 minutes after I was scheduled to arrive. The new arrival time was 2:51PM.  An hour’s drive to the hotel would put me there at the about 4PM. My two hours to relax was now gone. Here I was in Atlanta, dressed in a jogging suit, sneakers, a cap and no makeup. My mind went to work. With no time to go to the hotel, where do I change clothes? I attempted to get a pass to the airline Sky Club but was denied.  My only option was the restroom. I had been given a meal pass for breakfast, so after eating I went to my dressing room – the handicap stall in the women’s restroom. I did not feel guilty using the handicap stall (there were 2 vacant) because at that time I really felt handicapped.

After my quick change, I waited in the waiting lounge to board the overly booked flight which left on time. Arriving on time I sprinted through the airport to meet my limo driver. He was nowhere in sight. After playing telephone tag for awhile we finally found each other.  Once in the car, I asked where he would be taking me on campus.  His response “I’m taking you to the hotel”. I explained there was not enough time for that and asked him to call his contact at the school to find out where to deliver me. I, in the meantime called my speakers bureau to have them also make contact with the school. We finally worked it out and I arrived on campus at 4:15.

With the exception of my contact person at Smith no one knew what had happened. I delivered my message, had dinner with students &staff, and finally made it to the hotel at 9:30PM. I had gotten up at 5AM. The school had a fruit basket awaiting my arrival.  That was my breakfast the next morning when I got up at 3:45AM to catch a 6:15 flight.

By the way, the reason my flight was CANCELLED was “That plane was not available”. Explain that!!

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The Value of Travel

October 15th, 2010


I love to travel.  Through travel I am exposed to many people from other parts of the country as well as other parts of the world. I have learned so much about different cultures and the way of life for others. That has given me an appreciation and respect for the beliefs and lies of those I meet.  It does not matter whether I agree with or even understand the differences I see, I can still respect them.

Sitting in Durban, South Africa in a lovely bed and breakfast I reflect on the similarities and differences of this trip and my trip to Johannesburg, Port Elizabeth and Capetown, South Africa three years ago.  On this trip my experience has gone from  intellectual discussions at the largest university here to an authentic Indian dinner in the home of an Indian couple and their two lovely daughters to learning about and some limited experiences of the Zulu life.  The trip three years ago was longer and covered more territory, including Robben Island (where Nelson Mandela was incarcerated), Soweto Wine Festival and The Apartheid Museum.  Each experience was unique.  I learned a lot about apartheid from the people who lived through it and the changes in South African life since it ended. What humiliation they endured and the strength they exhibited to live through it and talk about it.

Travel also makes me appreciate and be more thankful what I have; not complain about my problems and move ahead with a purpose in life.

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Staying Cool

July 7th, 2010


As the temperature soared to 104 degrees in Richmond, VA today, I headed south hoping for cooler weather. My destination: Ft Walton Beach, FL. As I checked the weather before leaving it was a bit shocking to discover that FL is cooler than VA! A friend from Sarasota sent me an email saying “it is WAY hotter up there than down here”. I head to Sarasota next week.

I am now sitting in the airport in Charlotte, NC awaiting my 5:50PM flight to Ft. Walton Beach, which is near Pensacola. My travels have no taken me to that part of FL so I look forward to the trip with great anticipation even though my stay will be short. . I will be in the company of lawyers and judges tomorrow as I give the keynote address at the Women’s Luncheon for the Mississippi Bar Association. I am excited about this opportunity. 

It is nice and cool in this quiet airport, unlike many where I wait between flights. My computer and the passing travelers make the time pass quickly. The sights are interesting, a real fashion show. Will report back on my visit.

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Good Experiences

February 15th, 2010


Good Experiences

As I travel on my book tour, I am meeting so many people of all races, nationalities and cultures. The experiences are enlightening for me. I have a renewed appreciation for humanity. People are genuinely, kind, thoughtful and willing to go the extra mile to help others.

I have received so many words of encouragement and support as well as comments from many people about how I have inspired them when I didn’t even know “anyone was watching”. When I am told that I was an encouragement for someone to return to school, that is particularly heartwarming. I place such a high premium on education: “There is no substitute for education and there are no shortcuts”

This reinforces something taught to me as a child. Carry yourself in such a way that you will be proud for others to know of your deeds and words. You never know for whom you are setting an example.

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